2.) Make a clean break -Don’t do the ‘on-again-off-again’ routine. It will only prolong the inevitable. Also, resist the urge to call your ex.How do you know if you are over your ex? That’s the million-dollar question. A good indication is when you no longer want to get back together with the person. Additionally, when the thought of your ex having a relationship with someone else doesn’t affect you. Although you might not necessarily be ‘happy’ for him/her, but if you have gotten over your ex, you won’t care either way.

3.) Don’t get self-destructive - Getting angry (or desperate), trying to hurt yourself or someone else, drinking or taking drugs to become numb and feel better, or locking yourself up in a dark room are not going to do anything to help your situation. These things don’t actually deal with the pain, they only mask it, which only prolongs the sadness.

4.) Share your feelings -It could be with a friend or family member. Talking is a great way to cleanse your soul and ease your tension.

5.) Cry it out -Getting some of those raw emotions out can be a big help, so it’s okay to cry as much as needed, irrespective of whether you are a a guy or a girl.

6.) Give your heart time to heal -It takes time for sadness to go away. This depends on what caused your heartbreak, how you deal with loss, and how quickly you tend to bounce back from things. Getting over a break-up can take a couple of days to many weeks — and sometimes even months.

7.) Keep yourself busy - This can be difficult when you’re coping with sadness and grief, but it really helps. Just make sure you busy yourself with positive activities like doing projects around the house, going on a trip, exercising, friend-time and focusing on studies or work. Don’t get self destructive and at all costs avoid excesses of any kind.

8.) Watch a movie -To distract yourself, choose a comedy that has cheered you up before. Or watch one that’s guaranteed to make you sob — you might be surprised how good that makes you feel.

9.) Take a holiday/vacation or weekend off -Visit an old friend or go back home to your roots. A change of environment does wonders for the spirit. It recharges your batteries. It also gives you some time to think and find closure in a different setting.

10.) Surround yourself with friends -Interacting with others will help you in resuming a normal life balance. It may open up opportunities for new friendships too. Consider dating other people, but be wary of rebound relationships.

11.) Remind yourself of your good qualities -Often people with broken hearts blame themselves for what happened. Getting your self-esteem back on track is the key to your recovery.

12.) Focus on yourself -You’re going through a tough time, so do the things that make you feel good again. Get a new hairstyle, have a spa day, dance, or go shopping. Get lots of sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly to minimise stress and depression.

13.) Improve yourself -This is an opportunity to make a journey into self-discovery. Discover what you want from life and go after it.

14.) Get rid of the memories -Do your mourning and then put everything that reminds you of your ex in a box and seal it. Return it to them, throw it away, donate it to charity or ask a friend to hold on to it indefinitely. Get rid of anything that keeps you in the past, if it hurts.

15.) Learn from the break-up -Take the positives from it, and even more importantly, learn from the negatives. There’s nothing worse than dragging your negative habits along with you to future relationships, because you’ll just end up with the same result until you learn from your mistakes.

16.) Get out -Force yourself to go out even if you are feeling depressed. Go for a cup of coffee or a long walk.

17.) Move on -People who are dealing with a break up tend to play over past events in their head ad nauseum. This behaviour is normal in the early days of a break up but it can quickly become a dangerous and defeatist coping strategy. Remember that the end is just the beginning. Visualise your future, block out the past. Pick up the pieces and go after the kind of life and relationship you deserve.

18.) Don’t punish your next partner -Judge future relationships on their own merits. Don’t let paranoia from the past enter the present. If you live in the past too much, you aren’t ready to be in another relationship yet. Learn to trust again. Don’t let a bad experience keep you from living your life to the fullest.

19.) Consider getting professional help -Sometimes the sadness is so deep — or lasts so long — that one may need extra support. For a person who isn’t starting to feel better after a few weeks or who continues to feel depressed, talking to a psychologist or counsellor or psychiatrist can be very helpful.

20.) Take charge -Find the courage to pull yourself out of this rut. Take charge of yourself and you will find that there actually is life after ‘What’s-His-Name’ or ‘What’s-Her-Name’! You just need to make the decision so you can move on.

Is your birthday day 4 of the month?
Your Life- You usually think before acting which makes your life quite easy. But you often are the one who give yourself a hard time by being paranoid. People might not truly understand you but you are really nice to be around. You are cheerful and friendly. Your Love Still water runs deep, that’s what you are. You always surprise others with your new character when you are in love. Your love trap often comes unexpectedly and your love life is full of surprises.

Is your birthday day 5 of the month?
Your Life- Although you are on the quiet side, but you enjoy excitement and changes. Routine is something you cannot stand. Because of your extreme confidence, you hardly ask others for opinion. You believe in leading your own life, and you have got the gift in doing so. Your Love Nothing can stop you from making progress in your love life. Once you are inlove, you feel the ownership of your lover. A third party can only makes your jealousy becomes worse.

Is your birthday day 6 of the month?
Your Life- You are generous with people in need, sometimes to an extreme that people find you nosey. Your hidden courage and dedication often surprise others. Your imagination is extremely unique.Your Love- Your love life is on the smooth track because it grows from friendship. Althoughyou may not make a sweet lover but your sincerity bring happiness to your couple.

Is your birthday day 7 of the month?
Your LifeYou are sensitive to changes around you but your feeling is hardly expressed. You hate exaggerations. Under your quiet personality, you are rather stubborn and self-centered. These qualities are the force behind your extreme persistence. Your Love- You have enormous courage to please your lover. Your relationship often progress quickly.

Is your birthday day 8 of the month?
Your Life- You have pleasant and friendly personality. People look u to your wit and imagination. You are unpredictable and hardly complete what you started, which sometimes create negative impact to people around you. Your Love Falling in love becomes your routine. Most of the time you are lucky. You fascinate people with good taste but you never have enough with one. Althoughyour love progresses very fast, it never lasts.

Is your birthday day 9 of the month?
Your Life- You often have problem in promoting yourself, just because you don’t know how to express your true self. On the other hand, you don’t really care what they think. This is why people misunderstand you until they really get a chance tolearn about your pleasant personality. Opposite sex find you mysterious and worth searching. Your wit is remarkablebut sometimes you are too fast to follow. Your Love- You won’t reveal your feeling even after dreaming about the same guy over andover. Your first love lasts forever. You are responsible to the feeling ofyour lover. The chance to betray your lover is none. You have luck with children.

Is your birthday day 10 of the month?
Your Life- You are very capable. If you are a woman, you have high chance to be a renowned working woman. If you are a man, your path to fame and honor is near. As an innovator, you are not a good follower. You are good in implementing your imagination and share it with others. You are always well dressed. Your LoveYou often lose your love ones from being too jealous. You always feel like you own the person you fall in love with and that often blows your relationship.

Is your birthday day 11 of the month?
Your Life- You are gracious, elegant and prudent. People admire your qualities and some even become jealous of you. You are realistic, flexible and adaptable. You are remarkably kind and moral person. Your Love- You are willing to sacrifice yourself for the one you love. Your lover will always have your gentleness, care and loyalty. You will always be happy to hand around the one you love.

Is your birthday day 12 of the month?
Your Life- You are friendly, humorous and full of energy. You are open-minded and do not care for minor details. Your weak point is your hot temper. Your Love- You are willing to start off in one-sided love affairs because you strongly believe that you will eventually win his/her heart. On the other hand, once you are together, you always want to do things your way, which is often the firestarter. You usually run in and out of love quickly.

Is your birthday day 13 of the month?
Your Life- You are sincere and easy going. Flattering and charming around are not your style. You care so much for freedom that often leads you to the difficult path. Because of your sincerity, most people find you easy to be around although you are sometimes too straight forward. Your Love- Your gentleness, care and sincerity make you an attractive person. Eventhough you don’t intend to be charming, but you naturally are, especially in the eyes of opposite sex.

Is your birthday day 14 of the month?
Your Life- You are so confident that sometimes you forget about the people around you. If you have to be in one of the two teams, you will choose to be in the winning team. On the other hand, you are kind and caring but above all, you care for your own benefits. Your imagination is unique and often gets implemented shortly after it comes across. Your Love- You will not get soft with the one you don’t really like, no matter how hardhe/she tries. But once you feel for someone you have chosen, there’s no gettingback.

Is your birthday day 15 of the month?
Your Life- You are outgoing and love to be at the center of attention. From the outside, you may seem flashy, flirty, and tricky but your true self is strong, full of hope to be the leader. When you fail to convince someone, you will get frustrated, and perhaps let your temper shows.Your Love-You are emotional. Many can win your heart at once, but not for long. This is why you hardly win a decent relationship.

Is your birthday day 16 of the month?
Your Life- You always follow the good and the right instead of listening to your heart. Another word, you are a perfectionist. You care for every word people say about you. You often seen isolated while you are, by nature, curious and a dreamer who is ready to get over the edge to make your dream comes true. Your Love- You often fall in love with a person who is much different from you, in age and other aspects. Your relationship grows on friendship. Love at fist sight is notyour style.

Is your birthday day 17 of the month?
Your Life- You neither want to be interfered nor have the desire to mess with others’ life. But you are friendly and occasionally a party animal. You are always in a circle of friends. You often do things in your own way that occasionally go beyond the acceptable limit. People may find you childish and not very attractive in that sense. Your Love- Your fun-loving character attracts opposite sex. Many of those are great. You often find yourself trapped among a few great guys while you have to choose only one

Is your birthday day 18 of the month?
Your Life- At first glance, people think you are quiet type of person. Actually you are cheerful, but conditionally. You will show your joyful character only in good mood. One the other hand, when you are moody, no one would dare to be around. Because of your emotion fluctuation and frank character, some find you hard tobe around. Your Love- You hardly show your feeling towards opposite sex no matter how much you like him/her. Your partner also has similar character so your love affairs often take quite a while to flourish. Time tells it all. Your sincerity makes you very attractive.

Is your birthday day 19 of the month?
Your Life- You are great in managing everything in your life and this is how you gain respect from others. Because of this quality, you sometimes feel that you are better than the rest. Extreme confidence might lead you to the wrong path. You are a free bird and want to lead your own life. Your Love- Your love life is rather different from others’. When you are in love, nothing can stop you. You may often fight with your partner but, soon after that, youwill make up in a way that surprises others.

Is your birthday day 20 of the month?
Your Life- You are prudent, circumspect and take things seriously. Before you make anymove, you will think of a few alternatives that might take a while. You are patient, imaginative and target oriented. You value friendship more than anything else. Your Love- You usually study your partner carefully before making any move. You never demand anything beyond the natural quality of that person. Your sincerity doesn’t bring excitement in your love life but it brings deeply grown relationship.

Is your birthday day 21 of the month?
Your Life- You are curious and a true follower. You can please someone so much that itseem like you are trying to charm that person. You hide your disagreement under your smiling face. This is a charming quality of yours. Your Love- You are quite unlucky in love. You are loved by someone you don’t like while your dream man is so far away. Your love life is occasionally under turbulence. Sometimes you don’t have the clear view of the guy in your heart.

Is your birthday day 22 of the month?
Your Life- You have the boss character, but not a leader. Most people look up to you foryour capability and confidence although they find you quite stubborn. You should listen more to others. You are a unique and charming individual. Your Love-You hardly take the moderate track. You either love or hate someone. Whom you call friends are the chosen ones. If any of them betray you, you won’t let them get away without having hard time.

Is your birthday day 23 of the month?
Your Life-You never live your life in the way others want you to. You are an independent individual who loves challenges and excitement. You are ready to face with the result of your decision. You are usually the one your friends count on. Your Love- Because you love excitements, you occasionally get involved in forbidden love affairs. You may fall in love with a married person and no one can stop you from making progress. You are very charming, although you might not realize it.

Is your birthday day 24 of the month?
Your Life- You are very optimistic and that’s why you always enjoy life. You are gifted in entertaining others. Your friends love and trust you. You’ll be the first they come to when they are in need of someone to speak their heart out. Your Love- Sometimes you fall in love just because you want to be in love, not that you really like that person. You always be seen as a sweet couple but you can’treally get over your love ones from past. Your partner is usually crazy about you because you are remarkably charming and romantic.

Is your birthday day 25 of the month?
Your Life- You are a warrior. No obstacle can stop you from reaching your goal. You always keep yourself busy. This quality plus your responsibility will eventually bring you success. Your Love- You adore your partner as the number one priority. You value your love one more than yourself. Your love is the greatest of all and your have potential to get married young.

Is your birthday day 26 of the month?
Your Life-You are always curious and responsive to changes. Routine life is not the way you choose to live. Travelling is your favorite hobby because excitement is what you are after. Your Love- You will not stand being around the one you dislike. Your love comes and goes quickly. You can be deeply in love but soon after you will be looking around for the next one.

Is your birthday day 27 of the month?
Your Life- You are sensitive and vulnerable. Tears often run down your cheeks even when the matter is not that bad. This might be the result from being to pessimistic. You might seem cold on the shell, but your inner self is a kind loving person. Your Love- You will be elegantly dressed, no matter how casually dressed your date may be. You are demanding in love and sometimes to an unacceptable extend.

Is your birthday day 28 of the month?
Your Life- You are a capable person but you usually under estimate your own ability. This is the cause of missing numbers of opportunity to step forward. If you try to give yourself a chance, you can be successful in life. Try to see things on the bright side and you will be happier than ever. Your Love-You are quite unlucky in love. The one in your arm is not the one in your heart. Your love has so many ups and downs. You often chicken out before seeing any progress in love.

Is your birthday day 29 of the month?
Your Life- You can trust your sixth sense. Life is exciting so routine job is not your interest. You have great ideas and fantastic imagination. You often feel tired of things and people around you. Your Love- You can tell what’s in the mind of another person just from looking into his/hereyes. You are paranoid and jealous and these are the cause of fights between you and your lover. Sometimes the thing you believe in is just your imagination.

Is your birthday day 30 of the month?
Your Life- You are always surrounded by a circle of friends. You are friendly and fun to be with. Though you occasionally disappoint them by being stubborn, but over all,they love your qualities. Your Love- You want to have full control of your love and that’s not a nice way to treat your partner. You take your time in saying yes to his wedding proposal or if you are a man, you will not propose anyone until you are certainly confidentwhich might take ages.